Well, it's been ages since I blogged. I dunno why but the motivation to pen down my thoughts kinda faded away. There's a lot on my mind and yet the only one I share with these days is my Princess. And whatever frustrations I had prior to talking to her, it would just fade away after I confided in her. I guess this is what people call a soulmate, someone who you are able to share love, intimacy and compatibility.
Many people search their whole life for that one special person, going through good and bad relationships. Some find it eventually, some are still looking for it. You know I have friends asking me how did I find my special one. It's different for everyone. For me, I've been in the love game (well almost all one-sided) since secondary school and when I met Princess, the vibes I get from her is chemistry whereas the rest of the girls were purely attraction.
Chemistry's pretty hard to define if you ask me. But it's definitely alot more than attraction. It's kinda like multiple attractions caused by similarities like personality, interests, social background and attitudes. And like I tell many of my friends, if you get that kind of vibes from a girl, just go for it, don't have that kind of mentality that the next one will be better. Like everything in life, love is an opportunity. It's even rarer than striking lottery, so please cherish it when it appears.
And for those already in love, please treasure your loved one and always remember patience, communication and trust is the key. Don't let a problem linger, talk about it. An unresolved problem is like a leech and it will suck all the energy from your relationship as time goes past. When that happens, communication is usually harder (not impossible) because of a lower patience tolerance level. So why wait, get it over and done with as soon as you can and focus on happier stuffs like romancing each other and spending quality time together.
Dang, this post was actually a notification that I'm heading back to blogger as well and it ended in such a long essay on love haha. Cheers then!
Oh ya, belated Merry Christmas! :P
